Today marks 8 months and 5 days that I haven’t picked up a drink. Have I wanted to? Hell yes! Has it been hard? Abso-freaking-lutely. But, has it been worth it? Without a doubt.

I’ve had some stressful situations lately that have made me think that a drink would “help me relax” but as I creep closer and closer to 1 year I can’t imagine starting over. I’m beating this addiction and I’ll be damned if it comes in the way of mine and my family’s happiness and security.

It’s difficult these days when it seems like everything, including family friendly events, all seem to be at breweries. I simply can’t go. I’m not there yet…but I’m learning new ways of fun and just being at home (not a bar) and knowing that my family can count on me to not blow $200 bar hopping or sleep on a friends couch instead of coming home. It makes them feel good and me too.

So if you’re struggling with addiction(s) please know there’s so many resources to help you get YOU back. For yourself, and your loved ones. Personally, I went to a detox and inpatient program but things like AA or NA are a great way to start your healing journey too. Being able to talk about your struggles with people who understand is priceless. I also utilize the app BetterHealth where I have a therapist who helps me through my day-to-day.

Whoever you are, wherever you are, it’s never too late. Let the people in a program love you until you can love yourself and just dive in to recovery. I can guarantee it’s the best thing you can do.

-Mike